20 May 2010

Email that I wrote to my niece on 13 April 2010


My dearest Xin,

In this world, there is woman & man in human beings then and there is friends and enemy. Whether you like it or not, this is fact. The day when we born out from our mother's stomach, we cant choose the sex for ourselves. But we can choose to be friend or enemy to our surrounding ppl. To be enemy with alot of ppl, will make your life much more stressful and unhappiness for long time. God has created us and wanted us to be giving love to our surrounding ppl. B yi in my passed journey has not giving out my love and thus I don have much friend. Friends are important when you start getting old and lonely. They are there to cheer u up and give you strength. Although, they cant compare with our spouse, but at least there is love when u need it sometime. But I can't tell you to give love to ppl you really hate or has done bad to you. You have to judge by yourself that who are the ppl which desire your care and love.

I read your blog and realise your english language has improved and suprised by my xin sense of emotionally feeling and able to express by words. My feeling that you will achieve a good mark in your life journey and will be much better than your B yi. You will make it to the top of the hill ! Remember I told you you can either be at the top looking down or below looking up. I strongly believe my Xin will be at the top of the hill, definitely in my heart !

Sweet & Cheers from
B yi